Okay, so I haven't posted anything for a looong time but I'm finally ready to jump back onto the blogging bandwagon once again.
A lot has gone on throughout 2016 and it was a pretty awful year over all, as I think most would agree. My bowel twisted AGAIN, resulting in 2 major surgeries in 24 hours, not having any solid food for 14 days and a very infected wound leaving large amounts of fluid in my stomach. It's safe to say that was a pretty awful few months, but I truly believe everything happens for a reason which I will go on to explain.
Although I went through a horrendous time, the fact I was bed bound in hospital bought me together with a man I fell truly and deeply in love with. It wasn't a very conventional way to start a relationship and we had to go through a lot of stresses and strains until we could eventually be together, but I wouldn't change my hospital experience for the world as that may have meant I would never have gotten to find my soulmate.
After a complete whirlwind romance we now live together and are expecting our first bundle of joy, who is due in 6 weeks time.
I thought I'd do some upcoming posts on pregnancy with an ileostomy and having an inflammatory bowel disease. I'd also like to talk about what pregnancy has really been like and give a complete honest opinion on it, although I know every pregnancy is completely different.
I've already suffered with a bowel twist in my third trimester, a lot of pain due to a parastomal hernia, pelvic girdle pain and to top it all off a motorbike slashed my leg open the other day. Saying all that I couldn't be happier to be expecting and can't wait to welcome the little man to the world. So I guess everything that's gone on has ended in a positive which has taught me I can get through anything and the bad times are just temporary. Never did I think I'd be having a baby boy with my best friend and despite all the drama that seems to follow us, we couldn't be happier.
More blog posts are definitely to come, if not for myself and being able to look back at these, then for others that want someone to relate to. I've found it incredibly difficult to find people going through a similar situation with IBD / stomas / pregnancy etc.
Here's to making 2017 the best with what we're given and remembering that the best things can come out of the worst times.
